Art As Play: My Self-Care Tip for Wellbeing

Sometimes the act of spontanous creation is a gift I give to myself. Allowing myself time to explore my craft without a fixed design in mind. Not starting with a plan means I am free to take the creation in any direction it wants to go, try new techniques, or use some of my favourites. Just playing. There’s definitely a difference in how I approach pieces I custom design for clients, and the creation process when I let myself go. With custom gold pieces, precision is everything; it reduces waste which allows me to give my clients the best possible price possible. This means I’m often designing within a fraction of a millimeter.

So, giving myself bench time that is unconstrained and undirected, is really important for keeping my creative energy flowing. It is easy to forget to build that time into my life, but it makes a huge difference when I do. Allowing myself the freedom to play helps recreate the excitement around my art, and having no fixed outcome means I can let go of fears of failure and just explore. No pressure.

That’s kind of how this custom pendant piece came about. My creation process started by drawing a few ideas; I knew I wanted it to be asymmetrical, have a bezel & prongs to hold the stone. Then, I just got into my studio & allowed myself some creative time.

This piece combines a stunning dark veined piece of Pixie mine turquoise, set in fine & sterling silver. I showed the stone to my sister shortly after I got it & she was mesmerized by it. I kinda tucked that away in my brain & always thought I would gift it to her if I ever had the chance. This year provided the perfect opportunity.

My sister is one of the most important people in my life. She turned 50 this year & I wanted to craft something really special to mark the occasion. If you’ve ever had the pleasure of meeting my sister, you know she is truly one-of-a-kind, and I am so glad that I decided to make her a custom pendant that is as unique as she is!

I love this piece, and so does she. I found the process of creating something freestyle extremely energizing.

Do you have an artistic outlet? Do you remember to let yourself play, to explore, and learn and develop through experimenting. It might be by trying new ways of cooking, drawing, dancing…anything! But giving yourself the freedom to do things your way, just because you want to can have wonderful results. I don’t just mean because you might create a masterpiece! I mean because playing is something fundamental to being human that we often lose as we become adults, and finding ways to get back in touch with it is a fantastic way to improve our wellbeing!


Do you want to celebrate someone you love? Reach out and we can see whether a custom piece could work for you.

Custom pieces can be ANYTHING; pendant, brooch, tie-pin, earrings, ring, or body jewellery. Create something one of a kind, for a person who is one in a million!

Embracing the Art of Asking: Support my artistic adventure

Asking for help can be challenging, but I’ve come to realize that we are not meant to go through life alone. We, as a social species, thrive on interdependence and community support. That’s why I’m reaching out to you today with an exciting opportunity.

Are you intrigued by my art and what I share about myself?

Would you like to support my artistic journey and help me keep creating?

Are you interested in contributing to essential healthcare for a disabled artist like me?

Do you have a little extra to spare and want to make a difference?

Become my patron on Patreon!

I’m searching for a small group of individuals who can pledge a monthly donation to support my journey and art practice in a sustainable, long-term way. If this resonates with you, keep reading to learn more! And if not, please consider sharing this with someone who might be interested in supporting my work.

Many of you have shown a strong interest in the topics I’m passionate about, from supporting marginalized artists, to advocating for social justice and ancestral healing. I’m thrilled to see that what excites you the most are my posts about community support, identity, and healing; along with the behind-the-scenes glimpses into my creation process. These are the stories and insights I’m most excited to share, but they also require a significant amount of energy to create.

As an independent QTPOC artist, word-of-mouth referrals and connections made on social media are crucial for the success of my business. However, I’ve been facing challenges with recent changes on social media platforms that have led to a decrease in engagement and visibility. Additionally, some of my posts, particularly those addressing social justice issues, have been blocked or suppressed.

Creating free content for social media has been time-consuming and costly, but I believed it was the only way to reach more people and sustain my art practice. However, I’ve come to realize that this model is flawed, especially for disabled artists like myself.

I understand that jewelry is a luxury, and I don’t want anyone to feel pressured to make purchases they can’t afford. That’s why I’ve decided to launch my Patreon account, offering an alternative way for people to support me and my craft. Patreon is a membership platform that allows artists and creators to provide exclusive content to their subscribers.

Your support will help me access essential healthcare, particularly the regular bodywork I need due to my spinal injury and chronic pain. As an artist, my creative work is my lifeline, providing me with flexibility to accommodate my body’s needs. However, not being able to predict monthly income makes covering personal and business expenses a challenge.

I want to create a more accessible way for you to support me, regardless of your interest in custom jewelry. No matter how much you are able to give, everyone will have the same access to the content, community, and space. No status, no hierarchy, just a space for us to share perspectives, ask questions, and connect.

I’m excited to invite you to join my Patreon and be part of my support network and community; I’m especially excited to share a deeper look into my research and creation process as I develop prototypes inspired by my Filipino ancestors metalwork. With this transition, I’ll be sharing less on social media, reserving exclusive content for my patrons.

I believe in transparency and flexibility, so feel free to offer what you can afford and change it whenever you need to. Your contribution will support my health, art, and overall security.

Yes, I am asking for financial help, and yes, it makes me feel vulnerable, but I’m also hopeful. Your support will make a meaningful impact on my journey, and I’m grateful for every step we take together.

Thank you for considering joining my Patreon and being a part of my artistic adventure!